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by crowfooted

weconqueratdawn:

ardwynna:

I wonder where the break happened that such wide swaths of younger fans don’t grasp fandom things that used to be unspoken understandings. That fic readers are expected to know fiction from reality,  that views expressed in fic are not necessarily those of the author, that the labels, tags and warnings on various kinkfics are also the indication that they were created for titillation and not much more, please use responsibly as per all pornography. The ‘problem’ isn’t that so-called ‘problematic’ fic exists but that some of the audience is being stupid, irresponsible, at worst criminal, at best not old enough to be in the audience to begin with. And that’s on the consumer, not the author who told you via labels, tags, ratings, warnings and venues what their fic was about and what it was for.

I can’t stress enough how important this post is

by crowfooted

The Secret Heart – Hux/Kylo Ren, Celebrity – AU

slutstiels:

Chapters: 10/10
Words: 48, 317

Summary: Hux is an up-and-coming actor when Poe comes to him with the script that will make his career. The only problem: his counterpart, Kylo Ren. He’s reckless, volatile, never gets his lines right, and Hux hates him from the start. It’s mutual. But when they’re on screen together – it’s magic.

Warnings/Tags: Angst, Alternate Universe – Celebrity, Implied/Referenced Underage Sex, Slow Burn, Emotional/Psychological Abuse, Implied/Referenced Drug Use, Withdrawal, Panic Attacks, Bottom Hux, Top Kylo Ren

my fic for the kbb is finally up, I hope you enjoy! Art by @cattyisonfire! 

The Secret Heart – Hux/Kylo Ren, Celebrity – AU

by crowfooted

The Great Kylux Wank Rec List, Volume 1: “Cookies and Cream”

agent-nemesis:

Which fics does the kylux fandom like to get off to? The question was posed, and there were so many submissions that there will be not one, but three wank rec lists! They will be spaced a few weeks apart so nobody masturbates themselves to death. A couple of the recs are my own, but the rest are from you, the people of the kylux fandom.

Volume 1: “Cookies and Cream”

These are fics that feature mostly vanilla sex, but this is kylux we’re talking about, so of course there are delicious chocolatey bits mixed in. My categorising is as loose as a well-fucked butthole.

Please heed the tags for each fic!

by crowfooted

kyluxoxo:

One of the best almost canon Kylux things is the fact that Hux is “thin as a slip of paper and just as useless” to his father, but in a world where paper and writing is practically pointless, young Ben Solo taught himself calligraphy and apparently took it quite seriously. So while paper (or Hux) was useless to Brendol, to Kylo paper (or Hux) was priceless. And if that isn’t the sweetest semi-canon Kylux fact ever, I don’t know what is.

by crowfooted

can-u-not-my-wayward-son:

berksome:

a happy couple might’ve gotten married today 

someone might’ve kissed their best friend and realized they are gay today

someone might’ve found out they were officially cancer free today

someone might’ve finally finished their debut novel today 

lots of interesting things might’ve happening today 

we should celebrate 

you’re the kind of person everyone needs in their lives

by crowfooted

absolutely-walnuts:

themuditaendeavour:

bogleech:

deliciousstomach:

gwinny3k:

The worst trick a childhood anxiety disorder pulls is, you spend your early years being applauded for being so much more mature than your peers, because you aren’t disruptive, you don’t want any kind of attention, you don’t express yourself, you keep yourself to yourself – this makes you a pleasure to have in class, etc etc – and you start to believe it’s virtue. But you’re actually way behind your peers in normal social development, and who knows if you can ever catch up.

Never heard a truer thing in my life.

holy shit wait you mean being just morbidly terrified of doing anything wrong ISN’T necessarily the same as being “well behaved?!”

Convenient children =/= healthy children

Convenient children do not equal healthy children

by crowfooted

types of healthy coping skills

sensitivesuggestion:

1. self-soothing

comforting yourself through the 5 senses

Touch: stuffed animals, stress balls, taking a bath, a soft blanket

Hear: music, audio book, guided relaxation

See: snow globe, glitter, calming images, art, anything that pleases you visually 

Taste: tea, mints, gum

Smell: lotion, candles, incense 

2. distraction

removing your focus from the stressor for a period of time

puzzles, art, crafting, reading, movies, gaming, exercise, being social

3. opposite action

doing the opposite of the impulse that aligns with a positive emotion

affirmations, inspiration, lighthearted and encouraging focus

4. emotional awareness

identifying and constructively expressing what you’re feeling

journaling, listing emotions, using a emotional identification chart, drawing, therapy

5. mindfulness

centering and anchoring yourself to the present moment

meditation, guided relaxation, yoga, breathing exercises, candle gazing, going for a walk

6. ask for help

this is important to do when you feel like your coping skills are not enough or they are too negative and detrimental  

therapy is ideal for helping a person create a healthy coping strategy and incorporate it into their life 

*a coping skill is considered healthy if it helps you to deal with stress more positively, does not hinder your progress, and isn’t harmful physically or mentally. A coping skill can become negative when it is used to completely avoid dealing with the stressor. 

by crowfooted

alekina:

He wants to laugh at the irony, he really does, as he lets Potter brand his arm and override the dark mark with a new one.

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(hey i managed to finish this just in time for valentine!) i’ve been listening to some harry/draco audiofics and was inspired to paint a little something as thanks to the hp fandom, since i can’t actually write and all. Thank you guys for your work!